supercalifragilisticexplicadidocious.

to grow individually, and also together. to be someone new, and recognise that.

recently checked out a friend's blog talking about whether it's right to "lose" oneself in a relationship. and i guess it's something that crosses most people's mind when they are attached to someone...

so many questions that cannot be answered right away when you are in a relationship. you start wondering what's right and what's wrong; whether you are expecting too much from each other; what is the right amount of time to spend together and what's too much... ; when should you be apart so that you have your own time for your own life..; and what does it mean to live your life based on someone else's?

and sometimes it just hurts ur head too much to think about such questions and sometimes you feel silly about thinking about such questions. and so you start to address them at another time. and then u realised that your questions just build up and you can't handle all of them at once.

:)

and well, like what i think "mary poppins" the musical tells us.. you've got to take things in life jovially. "a spoonful of sugar makes the medicine go down.. " happiness, from within. to find joy from whatever you do, and not let others bring ur mood down, nor expect so much out of others such that you get so grumpy all the time. live your own life, and share it with others... there's a reason why we don't exist alone in solitary, on earth- people need people.

okie, rambling.

jia-out.